A while back I contemplated writing a post about whether or not social media was ruining lives, but decided against it since it wasn’t exactly relevant to the general nature of the blog. At the time I felt like everything was so overly publicized and because they were protected behind the keyboard, people left their manners behind. Political debates, religious views and complaints from here to the moon & back – things most wouldn’t dare talk about in an open setting – are now broadcasted in a public forum (and usually with misspellings).
Technology may hinder face to face communication but it definitely makes it easier to stay in touch and keep relationships going strong. While I wish life was simple enough that I had time to see all the people that matter on a regular basis, it’s just not possible.
Many argue that the internet makes it easier to say & do mean things to one another, but at the same time it makes it easier to do nice things too. As I have found recently people you’d never expect can reach out through the web to share compliments and nice thoughts. Sending a card can be cumbersome – you have go to the store, find the right card, buy a stamp and stick it in the mail. As a mom of two, a phone call takes time. After the day is complete and the kiddo’s are finally asleep I just want to sit down for a second, before I have to do laundry, cleanup and prep for the next day. Most of the time, that one second on the couch turns into me falling asleep and never getting the chance to pick up the phone at all.
Not only are friendships still alive, that might have otherwise died, but crazy enough I have new friendships with people I’ve never even met. When we first found out about Ella’s cleft we searched high and low to find resources to make us feel at ease. While we could find the basic information, we couldn’t find things that mattered. We wanted to talk to people who had gone through it. We wanted to see pictures of before & after to prepare ourselves for what to expect. The internet made it possible for us to make it happen on our own. In 2010 we took to Facebook and created a network for the Cleft Awareness Foundation, with hopes of building a local support group. Less than three years later we have a group of almost 3,000 people spanning throughout the entire world!
Love it or hate it, technology has become the way of life. Like most things, it’s not perfect but for the most part I personally feel it’s bettered my life and am grateful for all the ways it’s help me stay connected and build relationships.
Finding a balance between being a career woman, wife, mother and friend.
